{"id":1313,"date":"2009-07-06T12:32:00","date_gmt":"2009-07-06T17:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/?p=1313"},"modified":"2009-07-06T12:32:00","modified_gmt":"2009-07-06T17:32:00","slug":"this-side","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/?p=1313","title":{"rendered":"this side"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We drove around as a family and looked at some houses in Lewisville yesterday.&nbsp; It&#8217;s not the first time we&#8217;ve done this. &nbsp;Even before we moved out of the old house, Diane would find a house or two online and we&#8217;d drive through its neighborhood on the way home from the store or church or wherever.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve always known the apartment was a temporary situation, a stepping stone to the next place. &nbsp;When exactly that&#8217;ll happen, we&#8217;re not sure, but it&#8217;s definitely in the cards, Lord willing. &nbsp;Pen and Luke aren&#8217;t going to be able to share a room indefinitely, and the kids definitely need some free range area a little more accessible than the apartment complex playground, as nice as it is. &nbsp;Luke has been very interested in gardening lately&#8211;his Grandad and him planted a garden at their house and he looks forward to checking on the plants every week. &nbsp;He&#8217;s gotten to the point where he&#8217;s &quot;planted&quot; apple seeds and popcorn kernels in the flower beds next to the parking lot outside, in hopes of growing an apple tree and a &quot;popcorn plant&quot; (he doesn&#8217;t seem to believe our explanation about popcorn being made from plain ol&#8217; corn). &nbsp;So a yard would certainly do him good.<\/p>\n<p>Diane&#8217;s parents are local, and while I was initially a little resistant to the idea of living so close to them, the particular suburb of Winston-Salem they live in is the best, the most small-town-ish and has the most active community. &nbsp;In terms of living too close, what with easy transportation all over the area, there&#8217;s little practical difference between living five minutes or fifteen minutes away.&nbsp; So if I&#8217;m not going to change jobs, which I&#8217;m not planning on doing for the foreseeable future (I&nbsp;really like my job and it supports us), why not live in the best area available, regardless of how close it is to her parents?&nbsp; That&#8217;s been my line of reasoning.<\/p>\n<p>So we&#8217;ll see what happens.&nbsp; In terms of taking more chances life-wise, this is very much the path of least resistance; however, Diane and I remind each other to keep a proper perspective on the things we&#8217;re given, since we&#8217;re just stewards of everything anyway&nbsp;(even our children&#8211;and that&#8217;s hard to apprehend).&nbsp; I think if the Lord has a more far-ranging opportunity in our future, we&#8217;ll be ready for it, or at least as ready as we can be.&nbsp; I certainly intend to pray for that attitude to take firm root in our family.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We drove around as a family and looked at some houses in Lewisville yesterday.&nbsp; It&#8217;s not the first time we&#8217;ve done this. &nbsp;Even before we moved out of the old house, Diane would find a house or two online and we&#8217;d drive through its neighborhood on the way home from the store or church or [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1313"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1313"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1313\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}