{"id":1234,"date":"2008-12-20T23:50:00","date_gmt":"2008-12-21T04:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/?p=1234"},"modified":"2008-12-20T23:50:00","modified_gmt":"2008-12-21T04:50:00","slug":"simply-having","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/?p=1234","title":{"rendered":"simply having"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Our third annual local sibling tacky Christmas party was earlier tonight.  For those of you connected with us on Facebook, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll see pictures in the next couple of days.  It was a lot of fun.  Somehow Diane escaped middle and high school in the early\/mid &#8217;90s without having played Scattergories, so we bought a copy of the game and indulged.  She enjoyed.<\/p>\n<p>Parental thought of the evening:  I&#8217;m happy just to have <i>anyone<\/i> over for the evening.  With that thought come two clarifications:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Our guests for the party were not simply &#8220;anyone,&#8221; but people whose company we enjoy and cherish greatly, and<\/li>\n<li>As a family, we&#8217;re not &#8220;holed up&#8221; and desperate for company.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>That said, I do find myself less selective&#8211;in a good way&#8211;than I was when I was single.  You know the feeling: Not going to certain parties because you didn&#8217;t &#8220;feel like it,&#8221; or having to make the hard choice about which group of friends to hang out with on a given weekend.  Well&#8230;  The constraints on time, schedule and flexibility brought on by marriage and parenthood make one grateful for anyone who has the agility to shoehorn themselves into <i>our<\/i> schedule.  It&#8217;s a treat to spend time with folks.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our third annual local sibling tacky Christmas party was earlier tonight. For those of you connected with us on Facebook, I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ll see pictures in the next couple of days. It was a lot of fun. Somehow Diane escaped middle and high school in the early\/mid &#8217;90s without having played Scattergories, so we bought [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1234"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1234"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1234\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.boldulysses.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}